Author: finallyachance

Posted: Fri Dec 30, 2011 1:26 pm

Why all the defensiveness? All our stories are different and really the only common consistent thread I see is we suffer from addiction. Does it really matter who jumped off what and felt what when and how much so much that it becomes a personal attack? And…I mean this to Golden1and no one else as this is where all the dissension started. I know it is very important that we try to relay the best message we can to others that need to know “the truthâ€� of what to expect, but the truth can be different for each and everyone. And all we do by condescension and/or minimizing someone’s experience is confuse the person that is looking for answers. I use to wonder why moderator’s would even be a necessity and it’s times like this that I see they are. I think broncofan is due congratulations not condescension. And by that I don’t mean this Quote: “Congratulations. It would seem that after four posts not ONE person gets the point I’m trying to make. I think you have your mind so made up that you don’t even READ them.â€� The reason no-one is getting your point, is because no-one can get past the attitude so prevalent in your posts. It might be nice to give us your success story, your way and let the individuals decide whether they do it your way or bronco’s way. We love options that is why a lot of us are here searching all these post for a way to make our own. I really have tried not to respond to this thread as not to compound or complicate it any further than already done, but I feel the need to personally congratulate Broncofan and re-inforce what the majority is ruling here that we do not have to attack, humiliate, degrade etc…to get a point across. And secondly invite you to tell us how you did it so we have another perspective to go by evidenced by your success not your calling someone down for the way they did it.