Author: Amy14921978

Posted: Sat May 25, 2013 9:02 am

Goodmorning all! I was just reading to catch up on this thread and I think Honeybun gave you some really good insight.

TJ, are you a guy? LOL …. I am just curious bc you said "he ran to drugs before the big day". I am pretty sure she said he has been into pills for a few years now, and although I am sure you meant nothing bad, it stung even me reading that. Maybe its just the girl in me. No one wants to think their man turned to drugs because he was afraid of committing to them in marriage. LOL. Maybe it is true, but I suspect he may have had this problem well before the impending marriage. I do agree with TJ that perhaps it may be a good idea to postpone things, if only so that you can gain some of the trust back that you lost when discovering your bf’s addiction. Because- really- you wanna be 110% SURE about your partner when you say those vows!