Author: slipper
Posted: Sat Mar 31, 2012 5:30 am
| ohsosheana wrote: |
| Update…..I have talked on here before about my husband and I had an isssue that he never wanted to have sex wasnt affectionate blah blah blah……
Well n e ways he just left me and my kids and went to colorado. I live in california. WTF right. Its sucks because I thought we had not intimacy because of the way I looked (stupid me)…. So I went through alot of trouble to lose weight (gained because of two pregnancy) then I had my breasts done and a tummy tuck. I work out everyday keep my skin tan. I cater to what ever he wants and alow him to be a dick fuck face ……. This is the ulitmate betrayl by far for him to do this. I actually KNOW FOR A FACT that there is nothing I’ve done to cause this. there is a lot to the story for sure but I know hes just an idiot that I should have left along time ago you know what I mean. He kind of did me a favor by leaving because I never would have left him;. |
I AM SO sorry you are having to go through this…but the main thing i caught was you having to lose wt. to please him.’
I have struggled with my wt. all through my marriage and I know a man wants to be proud of his wife and would really rather us be the right size instead of fat, fat…but my husband never said anyhing about my wt. and when I would lose he would be so proud of me…the main thing he worried about was my health if I got overwt. but when I did go through those "fat" times I felt so bad about me…esp. when we were out with other couples and the other women would be looking so good…but I found you have to love yourself even to lose wt. …and I agree with johathanm…you marry for better or for worse and there will be plenty of for worse in most people’s lives…so feel good about yourself…like yourself…and maybe time will be the best healing thing for you. Please keep us informed on how you are doing.
good luck to you…
Slipper
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