My honesty on the forum

Author: stephent

Posted: Sat Jan 28, 2012 6:43 pm

johnboy wrote:
i understand all of you tear/breezy/rule/sweet/romeo/steph/jonathon/and thanks more than you will no. i’m not sure" but how careless or ignor- can some one be? i just can’t beleive that some one like domineque would not understand people like US Sad it makes it more harder to think of how domb people are about the sick"or mentaly ill/drug adiction.i gues we are not that domb after all and we can take a lot of SHIT!!!!!

When I was in treatment, I had a guy who’s girlfriend of several years stopped seeing him because she simply could not accept that he was an addict. Here culture had quite a bit to with he decision, as she was unable to not view using as something other then a "sin".

This same belief also prevented her from ever suspecting that he was using, even when it was very obvious. It is a form of denial.

You will get through this and you be a better person. Maybe in the long run it will be for the best. I am sure it is hard to see it that way now. Sometimes certain relationships and recovery just cannot coexist.

best of luck

– Steve

My honesty on the forum

Author: stephent

Posted: Sat Jan 28, 2012 6:43 pm

johnboy wrote:
i understand all of you tear/breezy/rule/sweet/romeo/steph/jonathon/and thanks more than you will no. i’m not sure" but how careless or ignor- can some one be? i just can’t beleive that some one like domineque would not understand people like US Sad it makes it more harder to think of how domb people are about the sick"or mentaly ill/drug adiction.i gues we are not that domb after all and we can take a lot of SHIT!!!!!

When I was in treatment, I had a guy who’s girlfriend of several years stopped seeing him because she simply could not accept that he was an addict. Here culture had quite a bit to with he decision, as she was unable to not view using as something other then a "sin".

This same belief also prevented her from ever suspecting that he was using, even when it was very obvious. It is a form of denial.

You will get through this and you be a better person. Maybe in the long run it will be for the best. I am sure it is hard to see it that way now. Sometimes certain relationships and recovery just cannot coexist.

best of luck

– Steve