Author: tearj3rker

Posted: Mon Jan 23, 2012 8:49 pm

Abuse.

Once that abusive dynamic is alive in a relationship it’s nigh impossible to kill. An abusive person can’t fix themselves while they remain in the abusive relationship. So the best way to help him is to leave him. They can only work on themselves when they’re alone. And it’s a lot of hard work on their part that takes years. So if they call up in two weeks begging for forgiveness, they ain’t fixed yet! They just wanna relapse.

They hate themselves so much they can’t live with themselves, so they find a woman to throw their self-hate onto. The painkillers may have drowned out his self-hate and made him tolerable for a while, but now he’s on a program his behaviours are showing.

They really need to start dating more Germain Greer feminazi types to put them in their place. But they never go for those women, of course.